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Lead former peers without losing trust

The problem

Top performers get promoted and struggle to manage their friends.

Steps

  1. Reset the relationship early in private one-on-ones
  2. Ask how each person wants to be coached
  3. Hold the same standards for everyone
  4. Give no special treatment either way
  5. Ask for their help without dumping your authority
  6. Coach in private and praise in public
  7. Work beside them so coaching comes from trust

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